I'm closing really soon on a home in Jenks ok. My lender said they couldn't do the loan if I had down payment assistance. With having to bear the cost of relocation and to now purchase things like I didnt plan for and will put me and my family in a poor financial situation to start off in. I wanted to see that sense this is a gift and not a second loan for the closing and down payment if it's possible to proceed with this program without my mortgage company being involved or knowing of it sense I fear it'll cost me and my family our dream of havinging our own home. Please call me and let me know if this is possible 